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This kind of thing can make a relationship seem a lot more interesting than it is.
Listen to folks who say that the simplest things is: Late night conversations makes this worse, not better. At 34 years old, this guy has been alive long enough to know that frequent meet-ups at coffee shops and other "safe" locations "just fuel the fire," as Ender's Friend put it. We get overunique visitors every month to our web and 33 dating 22 sites.
This doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you dating people, but dating people who have developed established ways to interact with and recognize other people's boundaries as well as the context for understanding them puts you and your interests at a colossal disadvantage.
He's trying to wear you down so you'll sleep with him -OR- he's an immature drama queen. I say if you 33 dating 22 him, go for it. He wants to have sex with you and then put in caveats and pretend he has a deep emotional life.
Also, from the perspective of someone closer to his age, I can not see someone in their mid-thirties having this emotional relationship with a woman that involves nothing physical for almost a year, when they are used to physical relationships, without them seeing someone else on the side - unless there is some sort of health or emotional problem he is hiding from you.
I genuinely don't think he has a girlfriend, albeit a serious one. I know it's exciting to be the pursued one and to feel like you are caught up in star-crossed, tortured romance, but actually, compared to being loved and respected by a peer, it's all kind of crap. This question and your follow-ups start to make a weird sort of sense if he has erectile difficulties. So you are having second thoughts about this, great!
It would be hard for anyone his age who's been sexually active to not pressure you, simply because they're so accustomed to having sex. My friend just had a baby with a 30 year old. Every second you spend talking to or thinking about this guy puts you further away from appreciating how valuable your time and energy is, and further away from being in the relationship you really want. Also he knows you're vulnerable but thinks that he has SO MUCH influence over you that you wouldn't know when to leave him.
You're aligning your actions on a lot of coulds. We are now on our 29th year of marriage, with two great children from our union. Relationships that feature obstacles and lots of mini break-ups never turn into what either person involved wants or needs.
Working 80 hours a week is not something you can really do and date one person, I've done it before and it is really really non-trivial; that is 12 hours a day every day, which minus 8 hours for sleeping and leaves 4 hours total for everything else from shitting to laundry to commuting to eating.
He didn't grow up in the best of circumstances but has really built a great life for himself. Don't date a Peter Pan-type with commitment issues.
That said, frequent mini-breakups are a bit of a reddish mini-flag nevertheless. I don't thing age is the big 33 dating 22, it's just not the right situation.
I think one of my friends has a mom who is about 40, and a dad who is about to turn Good luck to you. I haven't had a serious relationship and I haven't ever dated anyone that much older, but I'm your age and I thought I would offer my two cents.
Like some others have said, I think 30 or so would be my cut-off, simply because I don't want to date someone who could be my sister's boyfriend! Going into the line of work he is in, I know personally maintaining one relationship is difficult enough, having two with that while working 80 hours a week is unreal. And then eventually you just hide her posts, and oh my God, it's like night and day, the annoyance totally evaporates, and you can't believe you put up with it for so long? It is NOT your fault that he came on so strong and inappropriately, so don't take on his burden by now downplaying what happened.
I mean, look, you're young and you're figuring things out. This does not mean you should be ready to have sex and shack up. Dating homeless person yourself and him!
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